Comments on: Fear of Success and How Kids Become Bullies http://www.chinspirations.com/mhsourcepage/fear-of-success-and-how-kids-become-bullies Humanity Behind Depression and Bipolar Disorder since 1998 Mon, 26 Jul 2010 03:47:35 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Jane Chin, Ph.D. http://www.chinspirations.com/mhsourcepage/fear-of-success-and-how-kids-become-bullies/comment-page-1#comment-94665 Jane Chin, Ph.D. Sat, 11 Oct 2008 20:19:19 +0000 http://www.chinspirations.com/mhsourcepage/fear-of-success-and-how-kids-become-bullies#comment-94665 @<a href="http://www.chinspirations.com/mhsourcepage/fear-of-success-and-how-kids-become-bullies#comment-94217" rel="nofollow"> Julie Curran</a>: Thank you for sharing your childhood story about Kelly. We don't often have an opportunity to find out the whole story behind a bully's story. I'm glad you had the opportunity. Jane @ Julie Curran:

Thank you for sharing your childhood story about Kelly. We don’t often have an opportunity to find out the whole story behind a bully’s story. I’m glad you had the opportunity.

Jane

]]> By: Julie Curran http://www.chinspirations.com/mhsourcepage/fear-of-success-and-how-kids-become-bullies/comment-page-1#comment-94217 Julie Curran Thu, 09 Oct 2008 16:38:50 +0000 http://www.chinspirations.com/mhsourcepage/fear-of-success-and-how-kids-become-bullies#comment-94217 When I was in 6th grade,(1976) this girl Kelly wanted to beat me up (or threatened me through my ex-friend Jill) I was very upset about it, so my mother intervened. She called Kelly's mother and requested about having a "rap session" at my house with refreshments of milk and cookies. Kelly's mother addressed the problem to Kelly. Kelly re-evaluated her discision to bully me. We became friends, we never did have that "rap session". But Jill still continued to make prank phone calls to my house and was relentless about it. She also got the whole class to go against me. We did become friends the next year. I forgave her. But I did learn last year (we still keep in touch) that her father used to put her and her brother down and not have any positive feedback as a father would. I can understand now why she did the things she did to me. When I was in 6th grade,(1976) this girl Kelly wanted to beat me up (or threatened me through my ex-friend Jill) I was very upset about it, so my mother intervened. She called Kelly’s mother and requested about having a “rap session” at my house with refreshments of milk and cookies. Kelly’s mother addressed the problem to Kelly. Kelly re-evaluated her discision to bully me. We became friends, we never did have that “rap session”. But Jill still continued to make prank phone calls to my house and was relentless about it. She also got the whole class to go against me. We did become friends the next year. I forgave her. But I did learn last year (we still keep in touch) that her father used to put her and her brother down and not have any positive feedback as a father would. I can understand now why she did the things she did to me.

]]> By: Dealing with Fear of Success - JANE’S MENTAL HEALTH SOURCE PAGE http://www.chinspirations.com/mhsourcepage/fear-of-success-and-how-kids-become-bullies/comment-page-1#comment-66050 Dealing with Fear of Success - JANE’S MENTAL HEALTH SOURCE PAGE Thu, 24 Jan 2008 22:30:15 +0000 http://www.chinspirations.com/mhsourcepage/fear-of-success-and-how-kids-become-bullies#comment-66050 [...] reader wrote me after reading my post, “Fear of Success and How Kids Become Bullies”. How does one deal with this fear of success and continual [...] [...] reader wrote me after reading my post, “Fear of Success and How Kids Become Bullies”. How does one deal with this fear of success and continual [...]

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